Accidental Luddite

November 30, 2008

The Curious Case of the Accidental Luddite

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If there is one thing I’ve learned through dating, it’s that people never cease to surprise me. Actually, that’s not exclusive of dating. I love the little and big things that make people unique and kind of quirky. Here are some things that put me into either of those categories:

  • I have never had a cup of coffee.
  • I like to read magazines back-to-front, especially Vanity Fair and People.
  • I love the smell of skunk. I have yet to meet anyone who feels similarly. Not to sound counter-culture or anything, but I take secret pleasure in this.
  • I have two dimples on my right cheek, and none on the left. I’m lopsided, but in a v. cheerful way!
  • I once stole a My Little Pony and a bar of soap that looked like a cupcake. It tasted terrible (the soap, not the My Little Pony), and I’m now the most ethical person you’ll ever meet.

How about you?

November 13, 2008

A Thursday Miracle

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How do I express the joy I felt today, courtesy of…Facebook?

Eight years ago, someone came in to my life who inspired me to appreciate everything, live fully, help others and take a stand against the intolerant. I was just a couple of decades old, and this wonderful man made a tremendous impression on me. Then he was gone and, despite my best efforts, I had no way to find him.

Fast-forward through six years of wondering, a Facebook search and a shot in the dark. I found my friend this morning.

Some of you laugh because, while I fully embrace technology for professional purposes, I’m slower to adopt it for personal use. Case in point: I abhor text-messaging. In this fast-paced, ever-connected world, I fear we’re losing our ability to connect and communicate on a human level. A 180-word, abbreviated message can’t convey emotion, but it can cause a lot of trouble. I’d rather talk with you in person, or on the phone, or (last choice here) over e-mail.

But look at what technology has done for me lately. I am amazed by its ability to reunite, comfort, educate and entertain. I guess I’m finding a happy medium between the real world and the virtual world and, in the process, I’m finding the people I care about.

Has technology helped you reconnect? Are you for certain mediums, or against others?

November 11, 2008

Yes, We Can!

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There are certain events in history that touch us so deeply, it is impossible to forget them. Like many of you, I will remember Election Day 2008 forever.

This wasn’t just another race for Obama campaign volunteers. After all, he wasn’t just another candidate. Instead, he was the man we believed in. The man who inspired us to be hopeful, not hateful. The man who had us knocking on doors, chatting up neighbors and making contributions for the first time.

I spent Election Day in Hawaii, where I vacationed with some of my family. Since Hawaii is five hours behind EDT, we found ourselves behind the news cycle – and at odds with one another. We’ve never agreed on politics, so we forged a separate peace by agreeing not to talk about the election for the rest of the day.

When we left for dinner, which was aboard a ship amongst my dad’s co-workers, we knew Obama had a comfortable lead over McCain, but we also knew there were plenty of electoral votes left for either man. As we boarded the boat and saw folks on CNN with their arms in the air, I panicked: for whom were they cheering?

If, like me, you invested a little piece of your heart in this election, you too may have felt flooded with emotion when the words “Obama Elected President” subsequently flashed across the screen. Determined not to make my family feel bad, I instead found a quiet corner and called some of my fellow volunteers. And then I settled in to my seat to watch the candidates’ speeches. When President-Elect Obama took to the stage, I couldn’t hold the tears back any longer. The other passengers may have thought I was the saddest girl on the sea that day. In reality, I was the happiest.

Some have said this election made them feel proud of America again. Truth be told, that really bothers me, because I’ve always had pride in my country, and I always will. And the fact that so many people from so many walks of life came together to elect this man continues to overwhelm me.

Over the past week, I’ve thought a lot about the challenges and opportunities we face. About these lines from Obama’s acceptance speech at Grant Park:

I know you didn’t do this just to win an election. And I know you didn’t do it for me. You did it because you understand the enormity of the task that lies ahead. For even as we celebrate tonight, we know the challenges that tomorrow will bring are the greatest of our lifetime — two wars, a planet in peril, the worst financial crisis in a century…In this country, we rise or fall as one nation, as one people. Let’s resist the temptation to fall back on the same partisanship and pettiness and immaturity that has poisoned our politics for so long…And to those Americans whose support I have yet to earn, I may not have won your vote tonight, but I hear your voices. I need your help. And I will be your president, too.

Naturally, this makes me reflect on the enormous expectations placed on our new leader, and I wonder, can we accomplish these things? Can we heal our nation’s wounds?

My simple answer is, Yes, We Can!

What are your Election Night stories? What do you hope President-Elect Obama will accomplish?

The folks at Starbucks Waikiki sure shared my joy!

The folks at Starbucks Waikiki sure shared my joy!

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